Life Lately (by Phoebe)

24 May

Yesterday was a big day. I have discovered I don’t always have to wear the four or five layers of clothes Mummy and Daddy put on me, as this thing called ‘summer’ appeared. Mummy took me swimming, to a place with lots of others big people and normal people, like me. I liked to swim on my front but I don’t like the water in my eyes. The lady kept telling Mummy to put the water on my head- not fun.

A few days ago we went in the car. I fell asleep and then a few minutes (?) later I woke up and it was dark. I went to a place with those other people I keep seeing, and a big black thing which kept licking my hands. They kept telling it to stop licking them, and it even licked my face once, but I think it was trying to be friendly. The next morning Mummy was very happy for some reason- I was asleep all night so I don’t know why she was so happy.

Daddy likes singing ‘The Grand Old Duke of York’ with me and getting me to stand up and sit down; I think he needs to expand his repertoire a bit- he seems to only know the one song! I found another crazy lampshade in the little yellow room they put me in last night. I have a cough so I’m making sure I wake up every few hours so Mummy and Daddy don’t forget I need special treatment.

I am currently perfecting me ‘scream to sleep’ method. I get tired and then when they put me in that funny basket I start screaming. I can lift my back off the ground whilst doing it by pushing with my feet! Mummy tries rocking me but I scream louder then- she doesn’t understand I just need to get rid of any remaining energy before I go to sleep. Sometimes I catch my eyes shutting before my energy is quite at its minimum; then I have to scream exttra loud to make sure I DONT go to sleep. I also think Mummy can’t manage without me for more than half an hour so I only sleep that long so she doesn’t get bored.

I do wish Mummy and Daddy understood these things, I am making it quite clear when I talk to them. I’ve got to go and nap on Mummy now, so that we are both hot enough for my hair to stick to her arm. It’s the latest baby style.

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Toddler Truths

17 May

Whilst we’re not at the toddler stage quite yet, when I found twitter account @HonestToddler, I found it hil-ar-i-ous!

Check it out for some giggles; as for me I’m going to try and put the baby who is currently passed out on my lap to bed, and attempt some sleep myself. Happy Fridays!

3 months with Phoebe

14 May

Three months already! Time has flown, and yet it seems that Phoebe has always been with us, and it’s hard to remember life before. She is changing and growing so fast, I wish it would slow down sometimes!

What three months are like with you now, Phoebe:

  • You love smiling, sometimes at strange times like in the middle of crying because you don’t want to go to sleep! Your smiles fill me up inside and make all the difficult moments so much easier.
  • We have been lots of places with you, which you love. You have spent lots of time with Gospel choir, grandparents and church family. We’ve been on your first trip to the library, been swimming for the first time, and on your first time in the car with Mummy and Daddy driving.
  • You’re getting better at going to sleep at home (you used to sleep well in the pram, but not in your basket). We’re learning when you’re getting tired and the best ways to get you to nod off.
  • You have slept nearly eight hours in the night sometimes, so we know you can do it, we just have to get you to do it every night now!
  • You’re officially too big for your 1-3 month clothes, but I’ve kept my favourite things of yours!
  • Just before three months you had a bit of a growth spurt, which involved feeding every two hours, and waking up lots in the night hungry too. Thankfully you seem to be back to three hourly feeds in the day now!
  • Your face has grown much more into a ‘proper’ face, with lots of personality. Everyone says ‘what bright eyes’. I love your beautiful blue eyes.
  • Sometimes when I put you on my shoulder to burp or carry you, you hug my neck with your arms. So lovely.
  • You’ve had two sets of injections, which you didn’t approve of much- they made you sick and cry lots.
  • You LOVE to stand up, and you are learning to use your hands much better now. Your doll from your great-grandparents is your favourite in the morning, and you like the cube your Daddy got you too.
  • We’ve put up the curtains in your nursery and I’m going to paint some canvases to go in there, so it’s nearly ready for when you’re too big for your basket, and need to go in the cot.
  • We watched some of our video of you a few days old- you are so much more alert, bigger, filled out and interesting! Watching you grow is amazing.

[Apologies for the lateness and lack of photos- the laptop with cardreader has died, and I thought I had found the USB cable today. Seems it's the wrong one, so I'll update with photos later!]

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Weekends

13 May

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Yesterday I may have gone slightly crazy from the constant running upstairs as Phoebe was supposed to be napping, was horrendously tired, but kept waking herself up. In the end we put her in her frog suit (so cute!), popped her in the pram and went out in the sunshine- the sunshine which was making the day very warm, although I didn’t realise it until late in the afternoon.

We wandered slowly along to the park, bought an ice lolly each from the ice cream van sat at the park entrance, and sat on a bench in the sun. The sun was spreading long, low shadows which alternated with golden light across the grass. Phoebe woke up when she realised we were no longer moving, and so we wandered along to the duck pond, across the bridges and watched the birds shake their tail feathers in the air as they swum along with their heads under the water. It must be quite a strange view of the world from there, I always think.

The pink cherry blossoms were just starting to lose the last of their vibrant colours, but I took a few last minute photographs, so that I can draw some when I get a spare minute around here. At the moment I have a stack of notebooks- a writing journal, a sketchbook, a diary, notebook, little squared paper book and a pile of coloured Sharpies next to me. On Friday I took a leisurely trip around town to buy some materials for some arty crafty projects which are swimming around in my brain. I managed to finally find some fabric paint, to make some funky trousers for Phoebe after several attempts in shops, failed to find yellow acrylic paint in the craft shops, but found it instead in Poundland (!) and got a cork board and a whiteboard to transform and put in our dining room, just as soon as we get our sideboard.

I love that since having Phoebe and being at home more, I haven’t lost my longing to do creative things, but somehow have more ideas and inspiration for things. At the moment pinterest is a very exciting place for me- not so much to look for ideas but to refine ideas I already have. Our sweet girl is currently lying in the V-pillow on the sofa beside me, one hand curled around her cardigan, one spread out. She has finally stopped jerking herself awake, and looks quite peaceful.

Yesterday she slept soundly from the park up to our local fruit and veg shop, Beanies, where we stocked up on fruit and veg for the week ahead. I’m particularly looking forward to the sweet potato and asparagus we bought. Today after we got back from the morning service at church the house was full of the smell of roast pork, which Josh finished cooking whilst I sat and fed Phoebe. Although Phoebe woke up intermittently through her nap, we enjoyed a lovely Sunday lunch with a friend, followed by ice cream and Ferrero Rocher we have left from Christmas!

Whilst I went to get some more squash on the way up the hill yesterday, Josh went back to our old flat to pick up a parcel which had missed the postal redirect and got lost there. I thought it was some things we ordered which never arrived, but when I opened it today, it was a present from one of my school friends, plus one of our long- continued Jane Austen letters! Brown paper packages tied up with string… what a lovely surprise.

I’m looking forward to getting some crafty things done, although I know it might take a while; I’m not putting any expectations in terms of time frame on it, so I won’t get too worked up over it. Some things are easier to do whilst feeding or holding Phoebe than others, so I’ll enjoy my sketchbook, writing and knitting whilst she’s still fairly static and I don’t have to chase her, crawling about the place yet! Josh has gone out to play at our evening service now, so I have a few hours just the two of us. Baby fell straight asleep after her last feed, so hopefully she’ll be bright eyed for a bit before bed time, and will sleep well tonight. The last three or four nights we’ve been getting her to sleep for good six hour blocks, and I just need to work out how to get her to bed slightly earlier and sleep later, without waking more in the night.

Weekends, with Josh around and our baby girl to fill the time, are so sweet.

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For another world

11 May

I love CS Lewis. Love his books, and so many quotes just succinctly explain the gospel, and so much of what I believe. There are a wealth of these on pinterest, here is one which I think really speaks to life.

C.S. Lewis

It is so easy in life to look for the next thing which we want, which will make us happy, satisfy that longing inside. Then get it, and instead of that giving us long lasting, true happiness and joy, we look to the next thing to fill the void. There is really only one person, the person we were made by, made to be in perfect relationship with, who can do that.

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